Am coming to the end of my tether with DD. If we go anywhere it usually ends in tears, and not just hers.
For example, playgroup. She will be fine for a certain amount of time, but at the end when all the other children sit down and enjoy singing, DD insists on running around everywhere. As she gets more giddy she will try and hug other children. This usually involves her running at another child and grabbing them in a bear hug, usually knocking them both to the ground. Clearly this is distressing for the younger children and I am fed up with the nasty looks and retorts off other mums. The thing is DD does not go to preschool or nursery and so has limited opportunity to play with other children other than at this group and so I do not want to stop going.
Another example is food shopping. I dread this even if it is a quick dash in. She hates going into the seat of the trolley. She can undo the belt provided and so this is a waste of time, and continues to try and climb out. If I put her in the larger part of the trolley she is the same, as well as opening and eating food. When stopped she stands up and tries climbing out shouting "walking". If I let her walk however, she runs around out of sight, throws herself on the floor, pulls items off the shelves and when told to stop throws a huge tantrum and screaming fit. This normally attracts the attention of shop assistants who"kindly" ask if everything is okay. Today the manager even came over and gave her a voucher to get some sweets with if she was good - even this did not work. She ran off into the car park the other day whilst I was trying to return the trolley.
If we go out for something to eat she cannot sit still in a chair and HAS to run around mithering other people who are trying to eat their meals. She is also like this at home.
If we ask her to stop, she ignores us. In fact we have to ask her several times to do anything at all, which usually results in her being shouted at to get her to pay attention - cue another meltdown. I did not want to be a mother who constantly shouted at her child but I am becoming one due to her inability to be good. I know this is not normal, as most other children her age I know are nothing like this.
Sorry for the long post and I'm sure similar things have been posted numerous times before. I just don't know what to do. This has pushed to me tears a few times this week.
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Cannot take DD anywhere
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BlahBlahYackedySmackedy · 18/01/2014 21:00
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