Hi all
title says it really. ds has been trained of a day for 6mths and a night for 2mths. He has always been very good and doesnt have accidents at all[his bladder strength is better than mine ;-)]. Anyways the past couple of weeks he has been using the need for the toilet as an excuse to get out of doing things he doesnt want to. Example is last night at 2am he wanted milk but I said no go back to bed. So instead he was saying he needed a pooh so told him to go to toilet as he goes alone and is good at sorting himself out etc. Anyways was listening for him to be finished and go back to bed and he was there for an hour..everytime I said go to bed he said he wanted milk of course I said no and then he said he needed loo...and it carried on until I relented and gave him a drink of milk. I just dont know what to do as obviously cant ignore if he says he needs the loos even though sometimes I know he is doing it to manipulated situations like he did the same at my grandads 80th so we spent half the time in the loos. He knows what he is doing as when he got the milk he immediately got up and said he didnt need to pooh.
So any tips/ideas etc...am especially frustrated as last night was first night dd slept through so to be awake with ds was annoying..lol
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Nemo1977 · 14/07/2006 19:13
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