Hi all, I'm new to this board. I'd like to know some opinions on the above really.
DD is two in a few weeks and has been going to the toddler room in this this nursery since January. We moved areas so she switched from a nursery I wasn't quite sure of. The new one is by and large fantastic, it's such an idyllic setting, we love the staff and DD is very happy.
However she has been bitten nine times now since April. In June, she was bitten three times in two days. When it started happening quite regularly, I asked whether she was doing anything to provoke it, snatching toys or anything, this is when I learned it is the same boy biting her all the time. They were very close and as they played together often, she always seemed to be in the firing line when he decided to bite.
Anyway, a month ago I said it had happened too often, the situation was being brought under control, could they please separate them permanently because if it happened again, we would have to consider taking her somewhere else. Which I REALLY don't want to do.
Today, I got a tearful call from her key worker to say, they had all been outside, they played together for the first time in a month for a couple of minutes and he bit her finger.
The staff feel awful. They say the little boys parents are mortified. DD and the boy's birthdays are a week apart and they were both due to go up to the next room in two weeks. There is now talk of putting him up early and delaying DD by a few weeks to keep them apart.
I feel this isn't going to solve it though. I know he is only a baby. I know everybody feels bad about it but I just can't help but feel a tougher stance needs to be taken.
Maybe we should consider taking her elsewhere? But I just don't want to. I love it in every other way and she is so settled. Things are quite rocky at home and I anticipate some upheaval, I want her to have that as a constant.
What do you think?
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DD bitten for the ninth time at nursery today!
Licketysplit123 · 13/09/2013 20:18
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