I'm beginning to feel a little...uncomfortable about DS, aged 3.5. That might be too strong a word, but it's the best I can come up with at the moment. He's an amazing little chap, but oh dear he's a geek in training. And sometimes I feel that other mums and kids are looking at him a bit or even because of it.
This is not a stealth boast post by the way. If I want to boast, I'm front and centre about it .
Examples of things he's geeky about:
- toadstools. This is his absolute life's work at present. He draws them; he reads about them; he talks about them non-stop; he wants to go hunting for them at every available opportunity; he gets incredibly excited if he finds one. To be fair, I've encouraged it a bit as he is so into the subject (e.g. buying him a little spotter's guide, and a storybook about going on a mushroom hunt).
- collecting all of a series of classical music CDs (these), after we bought him the Peter & The Wolf one. He listens to some of them too, but it's mainly about getting all the different ones. The ones he does listen to, he listens to again and again. (If I hear the 1812 Overture one more time, I might cry.)
- drawing. But not just any drawing. He does pages and pages and pages and pages of drawings which involve toadstools (see above), the sort of rainbow stripe which is down the side of the classical music CDs he likes (see above also), and then strings of random letters (he's just learning his letters with me and at nursery). I kid you not - we have a carrier bag bulging full of these drawings, all very similar. He's not interested in colouring-in books, or drawing something else.
He couldn't give a flying toss about "traditional" male kids' stuff like cars, football etc. He's vaguely interested in dinosaurs but to him they are mere fripperies compared with toadstools. He also doesn't do much imaginative/"let's pretend" play, although I do try to encourage him to do so.
He is also a little behind (I think) on some aspects of his development. He's nowhere near toilet trained, and he struggles to dress himself.
Socially he's fairly introverted. He's OK with people once he's warmed up to them, but that can take a while. He's emphatically not a joiner-inner - baby and toddler groups and classes were a dead loss. His nursery say he joins in well enough with activities there, but that he definitely likes to plough his own furrow. If we met up with the mums and kids that I came to know through NCT classes, he will be the one on his own while the others go off and play.
I'm just wondering if this is all cool, or if I should be concerned. Anyone else got a geeky kid and experiences to share?