We are TTC at the moment and its taking a lot longer than we hoped. I'm 34 and thinking we will probably only have one child.
I'm worried that it will be spoilt and suffer as a result of not having any siblings.
I know there are loads of only children in the world but the only real reference is my nephew who is 3.10.
He's a lovely child but very demanding and selfish. He doesn't understand that not everything belongs to him, doesn't seem to understand the concept of sharing. I do think his dad indulges him too much and he then thinks every adult should respond in the same way. I try to be firm but fair with him but sometimes this causes real foot stomping tantrums. Also he gets really angrily frustrated when he can't do something or if something doesn't work. He doesn't like playing independently (likes adult company) but then seems to ignore other children.
As I say I don't have much hands on experience of children but I would like my child not to be spoilt. I know it's a lot to do with how we bring our child up but I'd like to know people's experiences of only children and how to compensate in a positive way for them not having siblings.
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How to stop an only child being spoilt?
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makingdoo · 17/07/2013 10:22
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