Needing to pick up/fidget with absoluetly anything/everything- just cannot not touch stuff. Often breaks stuff as consequence
Winding 3yo sis up so much she is screaming for it to stop
Ditto 6yo bro
Licking milk from cup in manner of dog
Spilling drink most mealtimes
Deconstructing all meals before eating them (eg removing meat from pizza to eat last)
Running through house, over armchair (as if assault course)
Running everywhere
Never accepts no as an answer,asks repeatedly til I'm tearing hair out-this can be about anything,really.
Requires multiple times of asking before any request responded to.
Tendency to talk over people or interrupt inappropriately
I know this all sounds trivial, but I'm getting really sad about it as what is happening is I'm constantly being negative-don't do that, stop it, don't wind your sis/bro up, listen, do as I ask.... And I feel like we're losing out on the fun happy side of life and our relationship.
So, are these all normal behaviours (ill see all of them before school drop off quite often!!) and I'm being a negative intolerant mother or.... What??!!
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Is this challenging behaviour from an 8 and half yr old or am I just a crap parent?!
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cakesandchocolate · 02/07/2013 20:03
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