Everything is chaotic at the minute, total whirlwind, complicated pregnancy resulting me being in and out of hospital. Currently in hospital until I'm 18w (I'm 16w now).
Youngest two are 9mo are actually coping well with the changes, I see them to breastfeed and pump. DH says they're settling the same and only cry when they have to leave at visiting times.
However, it's effected my oldest two. DH told me today that DD's night terrors are happening more often almost nightly now and becomes very upset when left alone for a few minutes. Creche has become a nightmare. Then he brought up that DS has been waking up and crawling in our bed and sometimes crying when asked why he says "I'm sad" but refuses to clarify why even though I can guess and crawls into our bed so DH isn't sad too.
DH didn't tell me earlier because he didn't want to stress or upset me but last night he had both of them in our bed crying and he doesn't know what to do. Neither do I!
I hate being away from them so we skype and make phone calls, plus they visit me. We have no idea what to do or how to make this easier on them. Please, offer us some advice. DH is starting to blame himself for not being able to "care" for them.
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ds (4) and dd (2) not coping well with sudden changes. Help!
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MultipleMama · 18/06/2013 11:14
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