What do we do?
She is rude. Always moody and recently stopped for minor shoplifting!!
There has been hardly any remorse for her behaviour.
Within an hour of being at ours this weekend (1st we have seen of her since incident) she slapped her older sister across the face. Refused to apologise or give reason and was sent to bed at 7.30pm.
All weekend she has been rude, giving dirty looks etc. She is soooooooooooooooo stroppy.
Her sister reckons she does the same at home.
I have tried to have a conversation with her about general things. though I ask open questions she either doesn't answer or just gives me yes, no, dunno answers.
DH took her for a walk with the dog and says she didn't talk to him either. She just dragged her feet and followed him. We can't talk to her about school as she gets defensive cos she is not the sharpest tool in the box and thinks we are having a pop at her.
She has no interests. Even her sister has tried chatting to her and just gets told to shut up!
No-one seems able to have a conversation with her.
The only time anyone has a conversation with her is when she is getting told off.
I have told DH that we need to do something about this and he needs to talk to her mum. I don't think we should be ignoring the behaviour. It is becoming intolerable.
She just mopes around all the time. She never smiles and when here spends all her time in the bedroom (in bed) with the TV on. (We are taking the tele out!)
We are not able to treat her at the moment because of the shoplifting.
I could go on and on and on but won't.
Does anyone have any advice....
What is the best course of action?
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oinker · 22/05/2006 16:20
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