Our 7 yr old DD has always been quite shy and does not like big groups of children and very quiet at school. I kind of hoped she would grow out of it but she just seems the same as when she was a toddler! It has come to a head today when she went a friends birthday party. It was a friend who she has known since she was 3, and it was held at her house which DD has been to on numerous occasions. She has been saying all week how she wanted me to come with her, so after a discussion I agreed. She did not join in with games/activities, hardly spoke to anyone even though the girls are all in her year at school and even cried saying she wanted to go home. I tried to encourage her to join in but don't want to force her if she isn't comfortable. None of the other mums stayed. And a couple of them asked why I didn't just leave and let her get on with it. She did the same at a party a week previuosly too.
I really am not sure how to deal with this shyness, or whatever it is. She is like this in other situations too. Sometimes I think I should just make her get on with it and wonder if she is putting it on a bit.
Any ideas on how to handle this?
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7 year old still clingy, advice please!
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sweks · 11/05/2013 23:02
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