My 3.5 yo has been having night tantrums now for about 2 months. It doesn't happen every single night but at least 2/3 times a week. It's definitely triggered by over tiredness, and we do everything we can to make sure he's not too worn out by bed te but as you know it's not always possible to do this!
What is compounding the problem is that my son is really, really attached to his Dad and favours him over me. So when he has his tantrums at night time only his Dad can settle him. Whenever I try to do it it escalates and the tantrum gets worse and worse. Obviously this is hard for my DH as he ends up having to get up at night time so he is tired out. It's affecting our relationship also as DH is always tired and grumpy, plus I feel he resents me for not being able to settle our son at night.
DH works ft whilst I work pt and spend more time with our son in the week. DH is a very very hands on Dad and a brilliant father, but our son's attachment to him is making life very tough at the moment.
I just don't know how to solve the problem. Has anyone else been through this and what can we do?
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Please help me address my son's night tantrums- plus only DH can settle him
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hackneybird · 21/04/2013 12:59
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