Help and advice please.
DD2 is 4. She's bright, funny, very affectionate, a giggler with a fantastic sense of humour and can be kind. She's also a real drama queen, tries to act older than her age (she has all the mannerisms - hair flicking, eyeball rolling, the nonchalant shrug which drives me mental), is very lazy and is now lying with increasing regularity.
She lies to get her older sister into trouble - "she pushed me, kicked me" etc. "I feel sick" to be shortly followed by "Can I have chocolate", lies about eating her lunch at school (older DD sees her shoving it all in the bin) - it all sounds so trivial when I type it now, but she lies with such ease and regularity, that it's really concerning me.
Her older sister (7) is the complete opposite - quieter, more serious, hard working, more introverted. I am very aware of being equal in my affection to them both and I don't know what I can do to steer her out of this habit. Tonight, she lied about falling out of bed when really, she'd kicked off her duvet to the floor, then sauntered downstairs to tell me that she'd fallen.
When I try to tell her that it's wrong, or that she must be honest at all times, I get a mouthful of cheek back! Honestly - this is testing me! I find myself being drawn into arguing with her. Half of me could throttle her yet the other half of me is grinning ruefully at her total gutsiness.
Help! Tell me how to handle this!
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My 4 year old is testing me.
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LittleEsme · 08/04/2013 22:44
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