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6-month old fidgeting - normal?!(4 Posts)
6 month old DS has never been a particularly calm or contented baby and his sleep is rubbish, not better than when he was a newborn really.
This might sound stupid, but I'm now starting to worry that his constant frantic / uncoordinated fidgeting isn't 'normal'...for example he woke at 1.15am and I've spent the last 1hr 45 trying to get him back to sleep. I hold him in cradle position, towards me (so on his side) and his 'top' / 'free' arm is constantly waving around, bashing me and him in the face - like it's attached to a string! And if that stops, one or both of his legs start going. And he'll sometimes arch his back and twist his head right round to look behind him. And he's strong now! And constant moaning / whimpering (turned to chatting now though!). He's had milk, carpool, teething stuff, but just won't settle due to constant moving. And when he does fall asleep, often when I move him to his cot all his arms and legs start going like a puppet too and we have to start all over again.
During the day / when I'm not trying to get him to sleep its less obvious, but he often arches, squirms and kicks in a very frantic sudden manner. Which I put down to normal baby development / startling etc when he was smaller, or maybe wind/discomfort, but now he's bigger and stronger its more of a problem.
He wakes up A LOT and seems to be whenever he moves, he wakes himself up.
He's meeting all the milestones in terms of coordination, tracking, etc etc so no concerns there, just this fidgeting seems to be preventing him (and me!) sleeping or relaxing. He will never just sit still on my lap or lie looking at something without his arms and legs going.
Any thoughts ?!
Some kids are just a lot more active than others. I've had friends babies sitting on my knee and they just sit. My DD was in a state of constant movement unless she was either asleep or very very ill. She's the same now aged 5 - she runs around the house, jumps over stuff, climbs up the side of the sofa, scales the bookshelves, sits in the sink, its endless. My DS doesn't do any of it, he just sits back and laughs at her.
But, all that aside, if you are concerned, if something is saying to you this isn't quite right - go to your pediatrician and ask them to examine your child and explain what's been happening. It will be reassuring if nothing else.
Hi, I totally recognise our little boy in this post. Please would you mind sharing how did your baby develop as this is post from 2013. I hope he's well and healthy
Our boy is 6 mths old and his fidgeting is getting worse, and hand stims as well.
We spoke to our GP and he basically discarded autism, in his opinion kids with autism stare at the wall, but we have watched so many videos with the same stims which just increased our suspicions.
We're waiting for an app with a pediatrician.
Thanks so much.
Omg everything you have said is my problem at the moment with my 6 month old son.im so glad i read this because i thought it was just me.i feel so down with it alland feel like i dont no how to help him.
I too have tried all the teething products calpol ambesol u name it i have it.noone gets any sleep with the constant fidgeting all night and playing with hes hands.if hes not throwing hes head back then hes kicking and hitting me in face etc.we tried making cot higher at one side incase it was reflux as a doctor said it could be so hes also on gaviscon aswell.i really dont know what else i can do or if there is something wrong with him that we have missed.