My DH started a job about 6 months ago which involves him working abroad for 1-2 weeks every 2-3 months. He is now away for the third time. DS (2,2) is finding this very confusing and upsetting.
We have tried explaining it to him, and this time have tried a visualisation method involving sweets: DH gave DS a pot of sweets when he left, with 1 sweet per day he would be gone. DS then gets to eat 1 sweet each morning, when they are all gone Daddy comes home.
Judging by last night's drama at bedtime with increasingly desperate requests for Daddy, and by this morning's clinginess, DS has not understood at all.
Does anyone have any tips on how to explain such temporary absences to toddlers? Or is DS still just too young to understand, and we just have to tough it out for a couple of years?
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Explaining absences to toddlers
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Abrico · 04/04/2013 09:49
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