DD,5, is one of the world's sensitive souls. She likes to watch and observe before getting socially involved but flourishes in a 1-2-1 situation. She has had the same 'best friend' since nursery and for the most part - they are in primary 1 now, they rub along just fine and are good friends. However, when there are 3 kids together my DD is the one who seems to find herself left out. It's happened a few times at school ( although school have said that DD is bright, sociable and bubbly has no probs in playground) but yesterday at the park my DD, her best friend and another little friend were playing - and within five minutes they were running away from my little one and quite obviously not letting her join in. They were playing witches. If DD approached they shrieked and ran away from her. DD ended up crying . When one of the kids left, there was just my DD and her best friend in the park - and they went back to playing quite the thing. This is fine and they played grand for an hour. But i can't help thinking that I need to teach DD not to just jump as soon as someone has ditched her and then wants to be friends later. DD doesn't really have a side to her, if that makes sense, and doesn't get why her friends would leave her out. Do I need to toughen her up? And if so, how do I do that without compromising what is a pretty sweet nature?
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