Please help!
My nearly 6 year old son is behaving really badly at school.
In this last week alone we have had reports that he has spat at another pupil on 3 separate occasions, he has hit someone and he has wet himself once as well.
The teachers are always commenting that he is often over excited and loud in class and whines loudly when he struggles to do a task. He often needs some one to one support to stay on task.
The wetting himself bit is awful, but it tends to be because he's having too much fun to bother stopping to go to the toilet as it's often when he's excited. However, he shows good bladder control at home but maybe that's because we see the warning signs.
This last week on the first spitting incident we sat down and discussed it with him, we didn't tell him off, just told him how sad it made us to hear what he'd done and asked him not to do it again. He then did it again two days later so we told him off (gently) and then made him write out lines "spitting is bad". We thought he'd got the point and then today we learned that he'd done it again.
We've been up until now praising good behaviour and rewarding him with things he wants by earning them, and trying not to react to poor behaviour.
however, we've also tried in the past punishing bad behaviour.
We're at the end of our tether. He behaves well when he's at home, only really poor behaviour shown when he's at school.
What can we do?
We have two other children too - 2 girls aged 3 and 1.
I'm starting to feel that we're bad parents. The other parents at school have already started to disassociate themselves with us, we're so upset with it all.
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Behaviour Problems at school 6 year old Boy
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cathpalmer · 21/03/2013 17:40
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