DD is just recently 6. Before christmas (for her whole life) she was this wonderful, kind, thoughtful girl - so loving and generous with herself. When I was ill she'd be offering me drinks / cuddles / all sorts - so so lovely.
Ever since Christmas, she has been getting more and more selfish and uncaring... its getting so bad I'm running out of ideas. She doesn't listen to a thing I say most of the time, and when she does - she ignores it and carries on with what she was doing. She doesn't seem to care about anything other than what SHE WANTS - all the time, not caring who she upsets, what the consequences etc.
I am torn between thinking there is some kind of hormone surge going on (and hoping it goes away soon) or wondering if she has suddenly become spoilt.
I have tried talking to her about her behaviour at times when her brother is in bed, and she seems to understand and says she will change it etc, but then come the morning its back to normal.
At the moment I am at the point of wanting to stop her going to the afterschool clubs she wants next term, and half the time I feel like 'sending back' her main christmas present as she doesn't deserve treats!
Someone please tell me this too shall pass? Or give me some tips on how to get my wonderful girl back! I am dreading parents evening next week at school in case her behaviour has translated through into school too ....
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What happened to my wonderful, kind, thoughtful DD?
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OohMrDarcy · 12/03/2013 09:26
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