Hi,
My Ds is now 2,8 and ias an has always been a great eater! This although, does not mean he's good at self feeding!
I may be to blame here because I tended, until late, to make his (and my) life easier and spoon fed him not encouraging him enough to do it himself.
When he started nursery at one year old, they really pushed him to learn self feeding and soon he started doing at nursery. At home I started making an extra effort but he's not the least interested! He's hungry...otherwise he would not eat everything when I feed him...and I can't bring myself to let him go to bed with no dinner...he's too young for that!
He now has lunch every day at school by himself and eats the whole thing (whatever it is...). At home he started to simply refuse at all to eat alone.
Meanwhile, I now have a 7 month old baby who obviously needs help feeding.
Mealtimes have become a nightmare...I only have 2 hands and cannot feed them both...I really feel he needs to do it but he's turning this into a battle with me.
I tried being nice and sweet, rewards, time out, taking away his so much loved half an hour of tv time after dinner...tried a dozen things and if anyhting it's only making it worse...
Any suggestions...please???
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toddler refusing to self feed!
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neshi · 01/03/2013 21:54
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