Feeling pretty down after reading a baby book, Ds has been fed to sleep up till now and I have been too tired/lazy to sort it out
We are moving house soon and my plan was to try to crack it once we were in the new place.
However, I am now a bit worried that just after the move is completely the wrong time to implement new sleep strategy, new routine etc as he will be a bit freaked out being in a different house anyway... plus he will be waking up in a new environment and probably even more likely to stay awake and wail till I come to him!
His current pattern is being fed a bottle, and being put in cot either drowsy or totally asleep. He normally wakes about 1130 or later to come into our bed and want to be right next to me in the bed. He often wakes again wanting more milk.
He has just started proper walking (long stretches across the room, down the road to playground etc) and is eating ENORMOUS amounts, so am not sure what to do about his nighttime hunger. He does seem genuinely hungry but I think it's actually his deeply entrenched habit of suckling to sleep
Am seriously depressed at the thought of sleep training but something really needs to change now.
I think I am goign to bite the bullet and start tonight. I will give bottle downstairs and read a story upstairs. Will then leave him awake in cot.
Do you think I go in to reassure every 5 -10 min or just leave him initially for 10 min... ? Or just close the door after telling him it's bedtime and be more strict? I don't want to go in if it will make things worse...
Tried to call millpond to get some tips but the office was closed.
I really have to do something as DH and I need to stop having him in our bed and the night waking/feeding is getting worse.
WE did drop his daytime milk recently in order to cut down on the number of bottles, he is one 1 9oz bottle in the eve, sometime an extra 4 oz during the night, and he sometimes has 4oz in a soft teat sippy cup at nap time during a day. Normally 1 nap per day, about 1.5 hrs.
Any tips???? Please please help I really jsut need some reassurance!
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advice on 18mo DS feeding to sleep and moving house/into his own bedroom?
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Honesttodog · 26/02/2013 18:25
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