I hope someone can offer me some advice as I'm really near the end of my tether today :(
I've three DC - twin DSs nearly four and a 13m DD.
One of the boys plus the baby are just incredibly clingy, it's getting worse and as much as I try to tell myself it's lovely, it isn't. I feel absolutely tied, suffocated and exhausted by it. The other DS is getting ignored and I feel terrible for him - he seems oblivious but I worry I'm missing stuff with him.
DT2 will no longer be left with a nanny (2 mornings a week I work) without major tears, hitting our lovely nanny, tantrums etc.
He goes to nursery for 2 hours every afternoon and goes happily so that's something I suppose.
We had a party yesterday though and instead of playing (it was soft play centre) he wanted to sit on my lap like DD was.
He has had a play date this afternoon, we do alternate Wednesdays after nursery and has always been fine but today he cried for me :((
DD spends the day either being carried or with her hands down my ugg boots so I can't move, whining to be picked up. She will walk around the house for a (very!) little bit if its just me and the DSs at home but as soon as anyone else visits or we go anywhere, she is a cling-on again.
My back is broken but mainly I'm just worried that I'll never be able to leave them - we have to find a new nanny from April but I think it's going to be pointless as I won't be able to leave them. Also DD meant to be starting kindy in September but aargh that'll be horrendous too! Sorry am being do defeatist. Very down today :(
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UntamedShrew · 23/01/2013 19:46
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