Hi - My 8 yr old step-daughter has been badly traumatised by watching a stupid prank video on you tube called 'follow the red dot'. She was shown it by a visiting 'friend' and was totally traumatised by the picture of the girl from the Exorcist that pops up at the end. Since then (2 months now) she rarely sleeps through the night and will not spend time on her own either in the house or out and about. She keeps climbing into our bed and rarely goes back to her own. She continues to talk about the video and it has clearly upset her very badly.
We had no control over her seeing the video as she and the friend were playing in her bedroom when the friend showed it to her on an iPad. You tube seems full of videos like this and even more pathetically videos of children being scared silly watching them.
We have now asked the school nurse to get involved as we have run out of ideas to try and reduce her fear. I can't believe we are alone in this but can find no advice on-line on stragegies to help. I would welcome any thoughts on how she can be helped.
So far we have:
- explained that it is just a silly 'joke' and meant to make you jump
- That the girl in the picture is not real and is an actress made up like halloween - I have even shown her pictures of the actress who played her but not risked looking at the image with her again
- got her to talk through what happened and how she felt - but she just gets too upset
We are obviosuly upset and angry with the girl who showed her the video and she has not seen her since.
Any thoughts or advice would be welcome.