My soon to be 10 year old has a history of telling lies.
We've always come down hard on her and she knows it's unacceptable. It's usually silly stuff such as
Me "I told you not to touch that"
dd "I haven't touched it!"
Me "you're holding it now!"
Recently things have gotten worse and she has taken things that don't belong to her.
Often things such as taking some of her sisters chocolate without asking - she will say that's not stealing, whereas I tell her taking anything without asking permission is stealing!
She brought a small decoration home from a restaurant when we had gone out for tea. Again, she took it without permission and in my book, it's stealing. The worse one though is that she took a toy that her friend left lying around. She was only found out because I realised that she had two of the items and she gave it straight back, but to me that's not the point. This was her best friend btw.
I have tried talking to her about it, I have tried reasoning with her and explaining why it is wrong. I have tried sending her to her bedroom, confiscating loved items for a period of time ...and even giving small items of hers away when she stole chocolate from her sister. Nothing seems to get through
Where do I go from here?
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Lying and Stealing!
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AnotherPhase · 31/12/2012 16:25
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