Hi all
We have a boy (6.5) who lives a few houses away and has been coming over to play up to 5 times a week for the past few months. My DH & I have both suspected that he has been taking things from the house but have had no proof. We recently set some boundaries with the amount the child was coming over to 2 afternoons a week as it was all getting too much. Anyway, today we were going out so I gave the child a 5 minute warning that it was nearly home-time (as I always do). He started ordering my son to get together certain types of toys which I thought odd and so I started to watch more closely. The playmate collected a small pile of toys, checked where his pocket was, stepped out of my line of sight and then a few seconds later came in to the kitchen with no toys in his hand. I left it for a few minutes and when it was time to go I asked him if I could see what was in his pocket and there they were. To cut a long story short he swore blind that they were all his and he had left them here on a different day. Then he changed the story to certain toys were his and the lego men were my sons. Whatever way you look at it he stole the toys.
I don't know what to do now so I would like to ask what you would do and see if there is an answer out there that would work for us.
Other factors:
My son really really values this childs "friendship".
The child is very very bossy and finds compromising when playing very difficult. He can be very overbearing towards my DS, overriding anything my DS says that he dosn't like with comments such as "NO, you are wrong, I have seen it in the/a movie". My DS gets really angry.
The child regularly refuses to go home when asked.
We have had to stop all trading (of Bakugan or other toys) as my DS is oblivious to the rules of trading and the child was convincing my DS to trade his "best" ones for broken ones which he convinced my son were much more powerful now as "he had seen it in the movie". My sons Bakugan collection is now half what it was.
The kid is a natural born wheeler-dealer if ever I saw one.
Anyway, I won't bore you with more details...but any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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I caught a playmate stealing toys...what should I do?
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theworldiknow · 08/12/2012 10:57
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