Have posted before about 3yr old DD1 mainly about what a fussy eater she is and how she is limited to wanting only about a dozen types of food. But I'm worried that I may be missing something.
She doesn't like large groups. When we enter a coffee shop or kids party she immediately wants to be held or hugged and gets teary and clingy. She doesn't like to get messy. If she gets any food or paint on her hands or clothes she has to have it wiped off straight away.
She is very particular about her routine. She wants her food served on certain plates and if not she throws mild tantrums. She doesn't like her food touching on the plate and cannot stand any visibly herbs or sauces.
On the other hand she knows her numbers, letters. Can play well with other children but sometimes gets stroppy.
When she has a meltdown, if I try to discipline her it goes on and on with her often screaming at me that she wants a hug or 'I want you mummy' and no amount of calm reasoning seems to snap her out of it.
I'm just worried that there is something else going in with her that I should be helping with but don't know how. She has a younger sister who is now 15 months. I guess I am just wondering if this is normal three year old behaviour and the usual tantrums or am I missing something. Any thoughts greatly appreciated.
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Am I missing something
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Doneinagain · 21/11/2012 22:25
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