I really do not know what to do, I am at the end of my tether. They will not go to bed, will not go to sleep, drag it out for hours and hours end up knackered and irritable the next day but then will still not go to sleep.
i really do not know what to do and it is making me and dp tired, irritable, snappy at each other, snappy at the dc and in a vicious circle.
DCs are 3 and 5. The 3yo had some medication about a year ago which caused nightmares so understandably was scared of bedtime. medication was stopped straight away but I think there is that fear at the back of their mind or maybe im just making excuses.
I have tried reading bedtime stories but then they stay up wont go to sleep, tried letting them play for a little bit then they wont get into bed and want to play all night. Tried letting them have a tv player and watching tv to go to sleep to but then they want someone to sit with them and if Itry to put them to bed they just wont go, will come down time after time after time. DP and I have given up trying to have a meal together because it is continuously interupted and it's so painful it makes us so unhappy.
I really could do with some friendly helpful advice or experience from anybody.
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My DC's WILL NOT do as they are told, or asked, ever!
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LonelyLinda · 13/11/2012 19:48
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