i love our daughter to bits
She's beautiful, bright, loving, sensitive and funny
Shes also incredibly strong willed, stubborn and defiant
She's been that way since she was born, never slept, always cried etc
When she was 2 I had our son. She found that hard but it was ok whilst he was a baby and didn't have his own mind
They squabble terribly now and he's now 2 so is whining, defiant etc also
Shes now at school and has settled well but I'm told they also find her strong willed and assertive, which aren't always bad things I guess.
Weekends, especially mornings in the house, are HORRIFIC at the moment
Dh has been away with work all week and came back in the early hours this am and got up with them this morning.
Ds always wakes first and we get a calm hour with just him. Although to be fair dd would be calm by herself too
Dd wakes (usually 11 to 12 hour solid sleep) and once she's eaten breakfast, or sometimes before, is awful
She is incredibly confrontational with ds and dh, less so with me.
She shouts. Squabbles. Whines. Cries (a lot) lies (about ds or herself) and its just unpleasant until we go out at 10ish
We always have to go out as it's too awful to stay in
She's better once we are out
I feelfor her as she is so sensitive and we do end up having to tell her off a lot and I shout too easily as she drives me insane
She doesn't listen, she breaks "rules", she's silly (chasing the cat around each morning instead of doing as she's told)
I know other girls her age can be similar but I expect more with asking her to be calm and let ds or the cat just be
She wants to be good but just can't seem to behave?
Every weekend morning is awful and it's really affecting the quality of our lives
I've tried sticker charts, time out,and none of it works for more than 15 mins
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Almost 5 year old's appalling weekend behaviour
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pamelat · 10/11/2012 10:44
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