This is my first post and I am really quite desperate.
My 5 year old son has truly epic trantrums when we ask him to do anything he does not want to do (eg leave a place, get off something, mainly we ask him to do something he doesn't want to do). He completely loses it, screaming, shouting, throwing himself on the floor. This happens at least once a day and he is particularly prone to it in public places which also doesn't help (the times I have marched out of playgrounds and parks dragging a screaming 5 year old!).
He's otherwise bright, lovable, funny, affectionate and doing really well at school but the tantrums are really wearing me down. I really thought they would have passed by now, his brother is 7 and can of course get grumpy but nothing and never had tantriums on this scale, he's worse than his 2 year old sister, you can usually reason with her!
I feel we've tried everything and he has never got what he wanted when the tantrums started, we've been enforcing the 'stop and go home' even when in the middle of what should have been nice days out where we'd paid for admission to places. It's frequently ruining days out for my other children.
Any ideas gratefully appreciated. Am I the only one?????
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5 year old epic tantrums :(
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judeb69 · 09/11/2012 20:24
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