Hi, we live on a smallish estate and the houses are relatively new. There is a small park that is maintained by the estate and its only a few yards down the road and can be seen from our house. Consequently, we allow DSs (7,7,4 and 3) to play there as long as they tell us at all times where they are and that the older ones are in charge of the younger ones. We watch from the house/garden when they are there. Whether this is right or wrong is possibly for another thread .... I'm sure there are some who would think this is not acceptable but all the children from the estate seem to play there and most of them can't se the park from their house like we can!
Thing is there is a boy who plays out with them and I'm not entirely sure how old he is but he's always around and can't be more than 8. He swears. A lot. Mostly telling the older girls who play in the park to 'fuck off' very loudly! I'm not really ready for my eldest at 7 to be this exposed to the f word and for them to start and bring it home (which they haven't yet I guess only a matter of time) but most especially the younger ones and I'm quite perturbed that this young boy is using this language so freely when he's out and about. Whilst I accept its a part of this world, I'm not really very happy with my boys hanging round with this lad and have told them as such. But this lad spent give up and won't leave them alone!
I was thinking of knocking on his parents door and just saying 'do you realise that your lad uses the f word and swears a lot etc ' - in a very non confrontable way to gauge their reaction??? Obviously if they tell me to fuck off then I have my answer!! I know I'm not the only one on the estate who has a problem with this boy as others have mentioned it to me - boys who play out with mine too and are a year younger!
What would you do?? And any advice/tips???
Thanks!
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imtheonlyone · 27/10/2012 13:19
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