DS is 4, missed out on school by a week this year, early September birthday. He goes to nursery three days a week. It's a private nursery but they do the pre-school provision for our village school as it does not have a separate pre-school. He has some "preschool" time and some "daycare" time. We read every night - 3 to 5 story books depending on the time - stuff like Julia Donaldson's rhyming stories, Hairy McClary etc and go to the library every couple of weeks. He has a good vocabulary and talks incessantly. I have been reading to him for all his life and one of his favourite things to do is to settle down with a pile of books.
I have felt for a while that he is not very far on with reading/writing. Not that I expect him to be able to do either properly at all at this age, but he shows no interest in trying at all. I don't think he has ever voluntarily picked up a pen/chalk/paint brush/etc.
Anyway, today his key worker asked me if we read to him at home! She is concerned that he can not identify the separate sounds of a word, not even the first letter. I have been trying to practice this with him for well over a year, but all that's happened is he knows which letter some words begin with because he has been told enough times. He has no idea how to identify that, say, "Dog" begins with D, however slowly you say it and ask "What is the very first sound I say D-oh-G?" He'll guess, randomly, any letter. He can recognise quite a lot of individual letters, but only knows their sound if we have made up a story about them, and then only the words in the story. Eg: We pass a fire hydrant sign on the way home from nursery. He knows it is the letter H - for Hello hero, help! But has no idea that ham, house and holly also begin with H. If I say "What is the same about cat, car and cow?" he'll say "They are all animals".
Apparently he is the only child in his group at nursery who can not identify first letters, and one of the few who can not write his name (in a fashion) - certainly every single one of his birthday cards from children was "signed" by the sender. DS won't even try to write his name by going over pencil lines I have done for him. He has a few books and comics with dotty letters to go over to practise writing - not interested. He will occassionally, but rarely, do some colouring for a few minutes, but he doesn't have the patience to do so for more than a few minutes (5-10 max).
How can I help him? He seems to no fundamental idea that words break down into separate sounds, and this is what letters mean.
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How to help 4 yo who hasn't a clue about sounds/phonics?
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FrightRunScream · 26/10/2012 20:44
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