Ever since I began to potty train DS it wasn't an easy process.
We started in the January before his 3rd b,day and gave up after a few weeks. Then on his 3rd Birthday, at the start of May, he said he wanted to be a big boy and wear pants, so we started again. It was Christmas before I could say he was actually there.
But poos have remained an issue. He goes every day. And now wipes his own bottom.
But every day, instead of going straight to the toilet when he feels a poo coming, he sits on his bottom to hold in the poo. Then over the next hour or so poo will escape into his pant. How much depends on the size and consistency of the poo. Whih for most people varries depending on what you've been eating.
I can say to him when I smell him trumping, "don't have an accident today , the toilet is just there." Then I can come back to him later and the poo has escaped into his pants. And I am cross and send him to the toilet. He is old enough to understand what is expected of him.
He often comes home from school stinking. If the teachers smell it they'll ask him if he needs a poo. And this week it was so bad he had to borrow some school pants.
He has said that other children have smelt it. And one girl commented that she thought he must be dirty. No child of mine is going to be teased for being dirty or smelly. Not when I try so hard to give them excellent care.
His teacher encouraged him to poo at school this week. She told him he could have a special sticker once he'd done one. And apparently he duely went and did one. I was beyond thrilled to hear this, and niavely thought we were about to crack the problem. He had loads of praise and was very pleased with himself. He then went to a friends after school. And when I collected him he had pooed in his pants. I was crushed.
Yesterday we go to football class and I smelled him. He was just starting to play with coach and friends. I had to drag him out of class and go straight home. No football if poo in pants.
I am also taking his DS off him the next day if he's pooed his pants. He's only allowed it for an hour after school. If pants clean.
Long winded I know. And I'm so greatful if you are still reading.
No idea how to crack this. He's five and a half and appears to not care that he's sitting in poo and stinking. He's very bright ohterwise.
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5 and a half yr old DS still has poo issues. No idea how to solve this.
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Shybairns · 19/10/2012 10:39
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