My DD (three at the end of Nov) is extremely fussy about her hands. She is reluctant to eat anything with them because they will then become sticky, which will be a disaster. We largely have to feed her like a baby. Going to the park can also result in much upset if things are wet, and I think she doesn't eat the snack at nursery because she is worried about the hand situation. On other occasions she seems to forget about it and will play happily and messily. She doesn't mind having messy clothes or legs/face.
I also have a 5 month old DS, and we have recently moved house, so I understand that this might be because she is a bit stressed and anxious (it has got worse since the move). But should I ignore it and comply with her requests to be fed/go through the elaborate hand cleaning ritual? Or should I be tougher? And are there any 'desensitising' games we could play to help her get over this? I feel sad that she can't enjoy painting, playdough, cooking...etc...
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Nearly three year old extreme fastidiousness about hands...
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Flowerface · 14/10/2012 20:59
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