My son is 6 months n 3 weeks. I found it very frustrating at times as i m sure most of us have at some point. Ppl keep telling me thus is the easiest part and it gets tougher - well they have been telling me this ever since he was born.
First month it was - 'oh he just feeds and sleeps all day...its so easy now,wait till he starts needing attention' - all this while i was struggling with sleepless nights, breast engorgement, completely out of schedule life, baby blues, c sec stitches n the body pain
Second months - 'oh he is so easy to manage now, wait till he starts rolling over' - when i was better managing the sleepless nights and getting a bedtime routine in place
Third month - 'oh he is so easy to manage, just rolls over....wait till he starts moving about and u got to watch where he goes' - when i was starting to feel better and finally in control (at least to some extent)
Fourth month - 'oh he is so easy to manage, wait till he starts putting things in his mouth' - when i was feeling confident on being a mum
Fifth month - 'oh right now its so easy, wait till he wants someone to play with, and then starts eating, he will b fussy and cranky' - when i felt that the problems coming along now are more manageable than the helpless new baby stage
Sixth month -'oh this is easy for now, wait till he starts crawling and u have to watch his every move' - now when i feel i can do this
Ppl are just there to continuously demoralise :'-( it feels really bad at times. I know its going to get harder in many different ways but i would rather he grows up quickly....this baby stage is beyond me!!!
What do u guys think? First 6 months were the easiest?!?!?
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The first 6 months - the easiest or the hardest
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AlCookie · 10/10/2012 01:31
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