DD2 is 2yr 10m old and has a very fiery little personality. She is energetic, physical, hardly ever sits still, is loud, screams when she does or doesn't want to do something, has major tantrums and is basically uncontrollable. On the bright side she is very intelligent, very verbal for her age, outgoing, very sociable, can be very funny and is fearless. The main problem is she being disruptive at nursery school. The teacher has taken me aside several times in the past few weeks as she has been so bad. She even had such a monumental tantrum one day, I was called to take her home early. They have even requested for me to collect her at 1pm (instead of 3) for a while, as after lunch when the kids either nap of have quiet time and she was being very disruptive and causing mayhem. They are going to try to keep her for a couple more weeks until 3 and teach her the rules about quiet time but today they tried to get her to read a book but she apparently just tried to eat it and tore off a page! This morning she also went crazy because her team didn't win a game. The teacher was trying to teach her about teamwork and when she said that her team didn't win but it was a good effort she went nuts and just hit the kid next to her. She also kicked another teacher when she was trying to deal with her. I just don't know what to do and the teacher has admitted she doesn't know what to do either. When I asked her about all of this in front of the teacher it was obvious she knew she had done wrong and apologized to the teachers but she keeps repeating this behavior. She likes nursery school and always likes to go (she goes 2 days a week) and settles in straight away. At home she is a handful. she will scream the house down for whatever she wants or doesn't want. She spends probably too much time in the corner now. She has no respect for authority and 'No' seems to make matters worse. Bedtime is a nightmare as she shares a bedroom with DD1 who is 4 and prevents her from falling asleep. She gets in and out of bed and I have to threaten her with the 'dark corner' so she stays in. The only time she stays remotely still is when watching TV/ipad but I limit that (tempting as it is to put it on a lot more). Potty training has been a nightmare as there is no persuading her of she doesn't want to sit on the potty and then she ends up wetting herself, almost too preoccupied to be bothered but potty training is the least of our problems right now.
What can I do? She has such a great kid in so many ways. Often people think she is hilarious. I know another Mum who literally wants to adopt her because she has only seen the fun side but when you see the other behavior it is shocking and sometimes it feels like it is getting the best of her. For info I have a DD3 who is 13m so DD2 is the middle child. Please help. Any ideas welcome! (sorry it is so long)
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DD, nearly 3 is uncontrollable & disruptive in school - help please!
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happywith3 · 09/10/2012 22:11
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