Will try not to dripfeed....
OK, so she was 3 a couple of weeks ago. I stopped taking her to toddler groups about last April, because her behaviour was awful. I literally had to stalk her round the room, we had pushing, hitting, pinching. In the end, I decided it was best just to stay away, thought perhaps she had outgrown them. Gave her the benefit of the doubt.
At home I do the naughty step, and also the naughty shelf - take a toy away and sit it up there - usually 24 hours. Tell her why its up there.
The ONLY times she has been smacked (open splayed hand on a nappied bottom) was when she bit me. It was more a short sharp shock type of smack, I did it because I had do it IYSWIM so that she would be shocked and realise that what she had done was very serious. Please don't flame me I do NOT hit my child. I have no idea where she has learn such violent behaviour.
So back to present. Since starting Playgroup September 3 mornings a week, I did think that she had improved, infact the leaders said she had, shouting and hitting had stopped, generally much better behaved. Described her as just very confident.
Personality wise etc. She is bright, she talks and acts alot older than she is. Needs constant stimulation. Rubbish at sleeping, Never sleeps a whole night, wants to get up and play. Soaks up information, alphabet, counting etc.
So, pick her up today, and she has bitten another child, really quite badly. The leader pulled me to one side to tell me. I asked should I speak to the other parent, and was told that No, they would deal with it. I feel awful. So when she was dragged off the other child, she headbutted one of the leaders and has a bruised forehead, and a grazed lip. Its not bad, my concern is the temper and loss of control that led her to bite someone and then injure herself.
I have talked to her this afternoon, and all she has said is "I wanted her to go away" - the child she bit.
I feel like I have tried everything, the good, the bad and the ugly so to speak. She is "that child" and I am just unsure what to do now.
Any advice? Anyone else been where I am and made it better?
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DD has bitten another child - temper is horrendous
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TantrumsandBananas · 08/10/2012 16:39
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