I'm finding being a new mum tough. my son is now 14 weeks old, we spent the first 6 weeks in hospital as he was early and small for dates (35 weeks, 3lb 6). He seems to spend most if not all day crying, worse if I put him down, but he can cry even if i am holding him. it doesn't seem to be at a certain time of day. I can't interact with him and play with him as I'd like cos he just crys all the time and its really getting me down. He sleeps not too bad at night, but is up from 4am onwards. I'm really tired and feel i'm getting no time to myself. when i take him out he sleeps in his car seat, and he's quite happy being passed from person to person, but otherwise he just cries and nothing seems to soothe him. I'd really like to bond better with him by playing with him and doing massage etc but the crying puts me off doing anything. I've taken him to some baby groups and he just crys and crys there too, its getting to the point that i just don't want to be around him at all and i'm beginning to feel that i hate him. please help!
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