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Do friendships need to be so complicated?!

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NorthernGobshite Thu 27-Sep-12 21:18:27

I feel like I am constantly moaning on here at the moment...
My dd (7) is having friend issues at school. I am sure it's the usual stuff but I don't remember 7 being this complicated!? There is a group of girls and sometimes they play well, other times someone gets left out. It seems to be dd mostly but then I don't know how other girls feel. Is this normal at 7 and any advice?

I have told her just to ignore any silliness and play with the people who treat her well. She is also a bit of a bossy boots and takes it upon her self to make sure people are following the rules; clearly this is not how to win friends!?! So I have told her that she should bite her tongue and let the teacher deal with rule breakers!

I don't know what else to tell her?

lljkk Thu 27-Sep-12 21:21:06

Try to be the sort of friend she wants others to be to her?

Honestly, stay well out of it as much as possible.

NorthernGobshite Thu 27-Sep-12 21:26:21

She is a kind lovely child and I think apart from the bossiness, is probably quite a good friend. I am keeping out of it, but if she talks to me about it I am hardly going to ignore her!

lljkk Fri 28-Sep-12 07:41:26

Oh yes, fascinating to me because I thought it was just kids at the bottom who got caught up in this nonsense, but seems they all do. DD-y6 can go on for an hour about the social status of everyone in her class & who is friends with who, who broke up, who made up, who likes who, etc.

NorthernGobshite Fri 28-Sep-12 09:50:38

Kids at the bootom? I don't understand?

It is amazing though the politics and social stratas of friendship!

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