This is going to be long.
I got called in to speak to the teacher today because 6 year old ds was caught stealing someone's snack money, and lied about it. Stealing/lying is a bit of an ongoing issue, but not usually this serious.
Anyway he is invited to a party. I did think about not letting him go, but I decided to let him for two reasons. One, the bad behaviour occurred at school and he has had sanctions imposed at school - would it be fair to punish him twice? Two, the birthday boy has been bullied a bit at school and chose only a few children to take out on a birthday treat and I feel it would be a shame for him if ds couldn't come.
So, this decided, then ds comes out of school in a foul mood, throws his bike down a hill damaging the brakes. I tell him his bike will be confiscated, but I have to let him ride it home as there is no other way to get it home. (I've just thought I could have made him push it home but I didn't think about that at the time)
He then zoomed off home ALL BY HIMSELF He is allowed to go ahead as he is faster than his younger brother, but he has certain places he has to stop and wait for us to catch up. I am so furious he didn't stop.
Do I let him go to the party or not? An added complication is that the birthday boy's mum and the couple of other children are coming round to mine straight after school before the party because they were all going to have to wait around before heading off and my house seemed a better bet than the park in this weather!
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Ds has been badly behaved - do I still let him go to a party?
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NobodySaidItWasGoingToBeEasy · 25/09/2012 16:12
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