My lovely DS1 is very bright (on the G&T for maths) but socially and emotionally he struggles. When he was at preschool he had a SEN teacher to help him deal with issues such as general behavior, routine changes (he hated routine changes at that age and would lie on the floor and scream if he had to do something different such as a school trip to collect conkers), socializing with peers and experimenting with new experiences (such as going in someone else's car). He progressed so much during those times and I was sooo proud of him and he worked very hard then, and he started school, and absolutely sailed through his first three years there, winning the hearts of his peers and teachers alike with his quirkiness and quick mind. But since about eight months ago his behaviour has deterioated quite considerably. He will not accept boundaries such as 'time to get dressed for school', or 'please give that back to DS2', he hurts his two younger brothers to get my attention / a reaction / get what he wants (sometimes something unbelievably trivial such as some chocolate), he lies blatantly about things that he's done (often very small things), and he screams in my face, and worst of all fights me or DH physically if he's really upset and angry. I don't know what to do to help him. It is breaking my heart to see him so angry. I've tried talking to him to see if there is something at school bothering him, he says no. I tell him I love him a lot, and tell him that no matter how much we fall out I still love him. DH and I are going to see his teacher this week (but she's only had him for 2 weeks so far) but at school by all accounts he is a completely different child - he wouldn't dream of defying a teacher. Any advice / experience / anything?? Thanks so much for reading.
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Eight year old boy - anger issues and problems accepting boundaries - help!
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BeckyBendyLegs · 24/09/2012 20:09
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