Need some support!

[ninipops]

DD is 2.8 DS is 14mths - someone out there please tell me that you also spend most of you day shouting 'Stop doing that to your brother' or dragging them off eachother or dragging a toy off both of them. And can someone tell me it gets a bit better - even just a little. Am due DD2 in Jan and even though today is a good day I am starting to dread my mat leave.

[terilou87]

hi ninipops, mine are 5, 4, and 3 and i spend all day telling them to stop fighting ect, iv found that sitting and doing things with them helps a bit eg get two colouring books a pack of crayons and colour in for a bit with them or start a game of rolling the ball to each other then leave them to it im also on maternity leave started in august early due to spd and it has been hard im due in november so not too long now. it does get a little better as they get older because you can send em to bed, take fave toys away ect and they understand a little more when you tell them to stop so id say it does get a little easier