I honestly don't know where to go from here.
She screams, she tantrums, she hits me. Everything is a battle. Going to the supermarket to buy a Christmas Tree this morning I was hit, smacked and pushed throughout the entire trip. This was because I refused to buy her cuddly toy.
She stays awake until ten, shouting for me to come to her for a drink, toilet, cuddle, whatever.
We probably have three meltdowns a day, where she is totally beside herself and out of control. Screaming, shouting, telling me she hates me, threatening to hit me.
She has always been quite high maintenance but this is a fairly recent development. The sheer volume and intensity of her anger is frightening.
My ds who is 8 was actually trying to stand between her and me this morning as he was so distressed by the way she was going for me. Obviously I told him it was not his job to do this and reassured him that I was not being hurt.
I honestly don't know where to go from here, I am shouting more and more and feel that at times these situations are totally out of both of our control.
Anyone else going through this, I adore my child but I am actually becoming frightened of her tantrums and I never thought I would be like this. I am not the type to back down from them though and so the intensity increases. I honestly do not know the best way to handle her now. Time out works, in that she will calm down, cry and say sorry but within an hur or two is building up to the next one.
Believe me when I say that she does not stop. For example she asked for a drink of water 5 times tonight, each time she got a sip, in the end I said no as it was late and time for bed. She screamed continuously for a drink then for half an hour and only stopped when she fell asleep.
Does this sound familiar to anyone because I am just so sad that this is happening to us as we have always been so close .
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My 5 year old, much loved dd, is honestly at times a horrible, horrible child.
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Petraperfect · 05/12/2011 22:21
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