Hoping for some inspiration as to what I can say to comfort and help DD1 (7) who regularly reports that she couldn't find anyone to play with at school so just walked around the playground by herself til break was over. I'm not sure which I find most heartbreaking - the days when she cries about this or the days she shrugs and says with such seeming acceptance that she's just not a kid that other kids like very much.
In truth, she's very outgoing and often charms adults to bits, but has always struggled a bit with other kids. Teachers have reported she seems to choose to do her own thing more often than most, whereas others are a bit more inclined to go along with the group so they can do things with their friends. This was OK when she was younger and she just floated between people, but everyone seems to be settling into little groups or best friend pairs now and DD1 is outside of all that.
I have tried inviting other girls home for tea after school, but although those seem to go OK, we either get one return invite or none and then DD1 reports she's fallen out with that girl now. I'm happy to try inviting every girl in her class (one at a time!) but don't want her to become known as Little Miss Desperate.
We have Parents Evening coming up so I can try to get some feedback from her teacher too, but if that's the same as previously (above) I'm not sure what to do with this. Any ideas anyone?
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self-help strategies for a lonely 7 year old please
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TAtops · 14/10/2011 00:06
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