My son has always been advanced for his age in most areas of development, from speech development and toilet training through to memory and maths. He has always been defiant of authority and has been hard to parent at times. He's now 7 and has just moved to a new school as we moved house. His teacher called me in to talk to me about an incident where he started bossing another child around. It turned into a much more detailed conversation about him - he is v good at maths but often chooses not to write down the answers, he is 'stuffed with knowledge' but sometimes chooses not to share it, he is sometimes arrogant to the point of rude with the teachers, and he doesn't interact on a level with the other kids. At home he is like this too, and watches and memorises documentaries on nature. His general knowledge is scary. He also comes out with very advanced comments. For example my husband and I were joking and I said to him 'You have no soul!' My son piped up with 'There is no soul. Souls don't exist. There's only DNA. The only soul you have is the sole of your foot.' Is this normal for a 7 year old? His teacher thinks we should have the family support worker into our home. I thought they were for people who can't get themselves or their kids up and dressed in clean clothes. I'm thinking more along the lines of an educational psychologist to assess whether he is gifted and to give us all guidance. What should I do? I just want him to be happy and make friends, as I think he makes life so hard for himself.
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