DS is 5 and just started year 1. I think he is struggling a bit - he isn't one for sitting and concentrating. he does get very involved but then has a melt down if he has to stop the activity for one reason or another. This happens at home before bed. he is given a 10 minute warning and then a 5 minute one, then we go upstairs to read stories and I settle him into bed. Only he flips out when he gets his warnings and then when it comes to going upstairs for stories he has a meltdown. He is worse when he is tired. He gets totally overwhelmed and can't switch off.
So...
How do you prepare your children for bed?
If you have more than one child, do you stagger their bedtimes (I have a nearly 9 year old DD who doesn't need as much sleep but DS goes mad if DD is allowed to stay up and read)?
How do you cope with bedtime meltdowns?
Should I give 10 and then 5 minute warnings or is this exacerbating the issue?
How can I get him into bed and sleep at a decent hour so he isn't shattered the next day and the cycle continues?
Once he is asleep he tends to be fine until 2/3/4am when he comes into my bed. I often don't even hear him getting into bed so reliably getting out of bed and putting him in his own one would be a bit hit and miss.
Should I try and break the habit of him getting into my bed? or should I concentrate on calmer more efficient bedtimes?
Help ... really can't go through another bedtime meltdown like I did tonight. (I'm a single parent so cannot get someone else to help btw!)
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KitKat84 · 20/09/2011 21:01
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