dd started school 2 weeks ago, so far so good until yesterday whehn another mum who's a friend mentioned to me that my dd had been unkind to her dd, saying unpleasant things, deliberately leaving her out, with a couple of other girls involved (all girls previously friends).
V awkward, apologised, had a chat with dd about it but don't want to turn it into a huge issue with dd because I'm hoping it's to do with the stress of staring school and a quick chat and some discsussion about being kind might remedy it. Never been an issue before, or with any of the other girls involved. The mum has spoken to all the parents aout how she feels her dd is being picked on by them all. Clearly I feel for the Mum, must be horrible to think of your child being left out, it's happened to me with dd before. But only heard one side of the story. Am completely paranoid now, v tense atmosphere at school gates, we were all previously friends (parents I mean). School haven't mentioned anything to me, should I approach teacher about it? What apporach should I take with dd?
Just what I didn't need, have been so anxious about dd starting school, and fitting in with everyone. I've encouraged her to ignore things that annoy or upset her, try not to leave people out and focus on meeting new friends.
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little girl politics at school, what to do
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confusedandbewildered · 20/09/2011 11:44
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