We have just started potty training DS who will be 3 in October. We never started before then as we thought he was not ready. So its been nappies off for the past two weeks (only underpants and bottoms), except at sleep times. Nursery is also following the same approach. We have a potty in his sight in the family room and also a toilet training seat (and a potty book to read). He's been using the toilet training seat for the poos for over 6-8 months (he still doesn't tell us, we just take him to the toilet when we see him grimacing his face i.e. a sign he is about to do a poo !).
So far, whenever we take him to the toilet/potty, he will do a wee or poo about 70% of the time. Remaining times if we take him there or ask him to use it he will refuse saying he doesn't need to use the potty, but then do a wee 5-10 minutes later. So we have been having plenty of accidents and even when he has an accident, he happily continues playing and does not tell us and is not the slightest bit uncomfortable (i.e. asking me to take off his wet pants). He is usually dry after naps or in the morning, if he has used the potty before going to sleep.
I know it has only been 2 weeks, but this is really stressing him out. Yesterday he kept asking me "please please, I want my nappy back". I am wondering whether he is just not ready for it and whether we put him back in nappies or maybe pullups and try again in 2-3 months time. My worry is that going back and forth between nappies and potty training may confuse him even more. Is that true? Also I worry, that everyone in his age group (and younger) are already trained and he needs to be trained by next September when he goes to school.
Help !! grateful for any advice / thoughts on this pls.
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potty training 3 year old - should we go back in nappies?
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firsttimer08 · 12/09/2011 09:39
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