my son is 10 months we gave him a dummy as advised by our health visitor when he was a few weeks old because he had pretty bad colic from birth.. i am careful not to give it to him too much usually only to get him to sleep and if i cant settle him in the car! and a few other times out of desperation if i cant settle him.
I have kept it for so long as we have done a lot of sleep training with him which has worked tremendously but didnt want to take away the dummy aswel as it would have been to harsh for him.......
now i am struggling to decide if i should let him have it but try and stay in control if it or if i should get rid of it ??
some advise i found says it needs to be gone by six months (which is long gone) and some says a year.
my aunt is a H/V and she is very casual about it and said if he is happy with it leave it as he is devoloping well ..
however i am worried that he is having it more and more .. and when he is not with me i find that who-ever has him (gran / godparents etc) they just give him his dummy constantly even tho i ask them not to..
I am worried it will slow down his speach and also worried about the germs as he will drop it now and pick it up without us noticing as he is crawling around especially at grans who has a dog!
but im worried if if take it away he will start sucking his thumb or just start stealing other babies dummies
I am struggling with this decision ...... !!
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HELP!! when do i throw out the dummies????
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pugsmum · 12/09/2011 08:52
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