My dd, lets call her Suzie, is 1.11 months and her language is really coming on, though she mostly used two word phrases.
At the moment everything seems to 'belong' to someone. So she would say "Suzies toy", and look at me for confirmation. But then she'll go on to say "Daddys car", "cats dinner", "Mummy's chair". Now some of these are quite correct - it is in fact her toy and I'll nod and say yes.
BUT some of these are not right, Mummy often sits in that chair, but she can in fact sit in any chair! So when I correct her attempts to move me into the chair she sees as mine (after saying not Mummys chair, everybodies chair) she will be incredibly insistent and basically end up throwing a tantrum unless distracted with something pretty good.
This happens all day long with endless items: the phone, the laptop, the keys, the kitchen bin...
So my question is: Is this something that all toddlers go through whilst they work out that some things are used uniquely and others are shared? And, do I just keep reinforcing that lots of different people use lots of different things?
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Is this something you recognise - 2 year old
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cottonreels · 11/09/2011 20:14
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