Thank you for even looking at this as it may be long!
DS is 2.2years, in the past 10 ish days he has gone from being a happy, out going, playful, potty trained mummys boy to a very quiet tearful little boy who is having so many accidents we're runnign out of clother faster than we can wash them.
The toilet training is the least of my worries, but he hasbeen dry since the begginning of july. He wasnt pushed in to toilet training, he saw his sister (4) using the loo and was asking to use it so thought why not. As i said above he's been dry since beginning of july, during the day and night, but in this last week he is having 3/4 accidents a day and is needing nappies at night again. His nursery are being really good as they know he is dry so are going to re-introduce a potty rather taking him to the toilet.
My main concern is his behaviour. He is so tearful, not whinging but quietly crying IYSWIM? I took him to the toilet this morning and as i was bringing him downstairs i could just see little tears rolling down his face, it was so sad. I tried asking him what was wrong but just kept asking me to cuddle him, which obviously i did whist trying not to cry myself!
Previously he has loved nursery and has been going since he was 8 months. Now he doesnt seem as excited to go and is very clingy and cries. One of the staff who has been in with him most days since he's started has noticed he has become quite clingy to her wanting to cuddle and following her around.
He just seems so sad and i dont know how to make it better. I am putting it down to their being some changes to what he's used to, his sister has just started school. She used to be with him at nursery, she was in an older room but they would often play together when they were all outside. He has also gone from 3 days to 4.5 days.
I feel like an awful mother as DD was with me until she was 3 and started nursery and i worry my son is feeling abandoned and unloved, and that im wrong to put him in nursery. I run my own business and in theory he could come with me, which he used to do on 2 days, but at his age i cant get anything done and he was pulling everything off the shelves and generally being a normal 2 year old. I was finding myself getting cross with him, even though i know its not his fault as he was obviously bored.
Any advice very greatfully recieved x
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lydiathetattooedlady · 09/09/2011 10:17
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