I am looking for guidance that I can use with my daughter, nearly three, to encourage her awareness of behaviours that I would like to discourage at the earliest possible age.
For example, and quite out of her normal character, I might find myself on the receiving end of an enthusiastic slapping, delivered with an infuriating half-smile/indignant look on her face - seemingly, in her mind, my punishment for not letting her do something-or-other and have her way.
Another mildly annoying example is a habit she finds peculiarly satisfying, of disagreeing with any standpoint I put to her. i.e:
me: It's raining outside, you will need your coat
her: It's NOT raining outside!
...and so on
Her behaviour is most always kindly and considered. A real pleasure for such a young child, but I?d like to address these occasional behaviours with some kind of light-touch but effective response.
I have not read much on the topic and unsure how best to summarise the issue in the form of an effective Google search expression.
Can anyone suggest further reading or online references for advice?
Tim
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What’s the best response to DD(3yr) occasionally insolent / disobedient behaviour?
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ManTim · 07/09/2011 00:03
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