My DD (almost 4) is just starting her 2nd year at nursery. She likes her nursery school a lot and enjoys going there. But she is quite shy and still mostly does 'playing alongside' the other children, rather than 'playing with'. Although we have friends with children her age, we don't have any that we see regularly enough for her to be totally used to them, so she doesn't really have any friends (other than DS, 2) that she's not shy with. It really doesn't seem to bother her at all, so I'm wondering if I'm just being a bit pushy to worry about it. But a lot of the other children in her nursery play together a lot, and I worry that she's not learning the dynamics of interaction and becoming part of the group (almost all her primary school classmates will be the same children). Should I try to encourgage her - e.g., by inviting children round to play? But I don't know the children or mothers that well, so I would feel a bit weird doing this ... Or should I just chill out and let her develop in her own time? Any advice would be gratefully received!
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