As the title says... DS, who's just turned nine and is about to go into Y5, has recently picked up some really exciting (to him) swear words - bloody, crap, shit and fuck come to mind. I don't swear at all, ever; DH does swear, but only when the children are at school. I have asked DS not to say these words in front of me or to teach them to 7-y-0 DD (some hope!!), to no avail.
I am sure this is yet another tedious phase, but I need advice from others who have come out the other side of it.
Do I:
Ignore, ignore, ignore (at the risk of letting him think it's okay to shout 'bloody hell' - which I don't think it is)
Explain, explain, explain why it's ok to know these words, but not ok to use them in company
Fine him pocket money every time he does it?
He has Aspergers and is generally very difficult to manage (don't want to drip feed info, so am mentioning it now!)
I know MN has many posters who don't have a problem with swearing; sweary-folks, please don't post jokey sweary posts in reply. I'm quite upset about this, and would really appreciate constructive advice.
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DS (9) has learnt to swear - advice please!
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WhiffOfBath · 29/08/2011 10:35
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